Banishing Victim Mentality

The first and most important step toward healing is to acknowledge that you possess a victim mentality and that it causes problems in your life. And as you might expect, often the most difficult part of this process is admitting to yourself that your problems might be, at least in part, your own creation. However, once you’re able to admit this, you’re in a prime position to begin working on adjusting your attitude – which, of course, will lead you to a better and more fulfilling life.

Often it is our past experiences that are deeply buried in the recesses of our subconscious that causes us to develop a habit of feeling victimized and shifting blame. If the bulk of your childhood memories are about facing neglect or feeling unloved, it can lead to a general feeling in adulthood that fate is poised against you or that everyone is out to get you…

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Abolishing Victim Mentality

Getting Past Victim Mentality
Realizing that that you have a victim mentality and that it is causing problems in your life is the first and most important step toward healing. It’s admitting to yourself that your problems may be your own creation that is the most difficult part. Once you reach past that stage, you can start working on changing your attitude so that you start living a better and more fulfilling life.

Causes of Victim Mentality
The habit of shifting blame and feeling victimized generally arises from past experiences buried deeply in the recesses of one’s subconscious. You may feel that everyone is out to get you or that fate is never on your side if your childhood memories are that of feeling unloved or facing neglect. People with a history of childhood abuse may…

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